Laura, thanks for staying with us and thanks for the nice words. Before you booked, I had brought it to your attention to please read the house rules and if it was ok with you then proceed with booking. It is clear in the rules that you have to communicate how many people are staying.
You said, your boyfriend's visit was a surprise but I assume at some point you had given him the address (so you could have told us right then).
The main concern was that you were very loud in the balcony past midnight and our neighbor called and complaint as their bedroom is right there.
I appreciate that after I brought it to your attention, you cut the noise.
Thank you again for staying with us.